FRUSTRATION

So, my wife was in an auto accident where she totaled her car via hydroplaning. As a result we have been nonstop fighting with the insurance company, the lean holder and the agency which is the middle man essentially. This incident happened 6-23-16. We just got another bill from Kia Finance stating we are two months behind on the payments and once it hits 30 days, it gets turned over to the collections  I'm sorry but I have NEVER had anything in collections and I am not about to now. My wife currently is on the phone with multiple people being told to call this person, that person and everyone's grandmother essentially. She finally has a name and number of the person who was SUPPOSED to send the check out to us to send to Kia, like weeks ago. This is so incredibly frustration especially being on house arrest and dealing with this house arrest stuff.  The worst part is not being able to get the answers we need and having to go back and forth between numerous people to get this settled when it should have been settled a long time ago.  Knowing there is nothing I can do sucks majorly. 

So today I got a call from my PO's assistant. First off, I didn't know PO's had assistants! News to me. Anyways, so I called last Saturday to let my PO know that I had an interview scheduled for the 19th at 6pm. Now, in order for me to go anywhere I have to call and let them know how log it will take me to get there and how long it will take me to get back. Now I have the interview at 6 and I like to show up early, so I plan on arriving at 545. So I told my PO that I needed to leave at 530 and should be home by 630 given I do not get hired on the spot and have to fill out paperwork. If I do, then I will have to go back home with the papers and send anther phone call in to have the approval to turn the paperwork in and possibly begin the tour, schedule, and so on. 

Oh the annoyances of house arrest. But I keep reminding myself that it is better than being in jail. So the weekend is quickly approaching and the weekend is the worst time on house arrest because I cannot leave my house at all what so ever. That is the hardest part. So now I am working on creating a monthly schedule so that I can plan out weekend of working out, cleaning, reading, working out more, and so on. I hardly watch TV so that really isn't something that will kill time per se. Currently, my mind is a mess and feeling trapped like you wouldn't believe. I have to establish some sort of schedule to created routine and to keep my mind and body active to make this nine months go faster. I am hoping with winter approaching and earlier bed times/longer sleeping, that will help the time pass faster too.

So one week and one day on house arrest, and my life is no longer the same. My poor wife has so much to do and when she goes back to work I am not sure how much more it is going to change. I am going to have to fanagle getting laundry done, garbage out, getting the mail and taking Izzy out while working on the buildings that I clean because once that window is done, I am locked in the house. 

I think doing this blog will help, along with the mandated counseling and psych appointments. That should kill some time or make things seem a little more normal. 

until next time....